About Love

About Love

Love is an essential ingredient of life. That is the first emotion we feel when our mother looks at us as a new born child. You cannot get through this life holistically without the experience of pure love. In love, there is no 'I'. Man is selfish by nature and is primarily always focused only on his own needs. It is only in love that we learn to give unconditionally. Where there are expectations, love cannot thrive. This is because expectations arise from needs not from love. So, how can one be free of expectations? That cannot happen until and unless self love is cultivated. The essence of love is in giving and unless you are whole on your own, you cannot possibly give and be happy in giving. Self love is not about striving to be perfect or being better than others; it is about accepting yourself the way you are! So begin with asking yourself, have you found love yet?